The big lesson of the life “if you want to be in good relationship then you should start loving yourself”. As you know that life just a puzzle and it is very hard to discover yourself by own effort, but I can tell you that it is not impossible.
Let me discuss some fundamental points with you, so you can find yourself. I am not saying that it will discover you accurately, but it is better to do something without doing anything.So. Let's start discover yourself.
Who I am?
Weakness and Strengths Carefully describe your weakness and strengths, people who know their weakness and strengths for me they are the winner. As per my personal experience I always try to convert my weakness to strengths. But careful about your weakness because if people love you due to your weakness so I think you should not change yourself.
Be Real and Humble Be real in the sense of honesty. Honesty is really a great trait to have; it lets other people know that you can be relied on and that your word is your bond. Honesty isn't about being dull or rude though––it's about telling things frankly with a view to respecting other people's intelligence, feelings. By accepting that you don’t know everything, you become more likable and able to learn from others.
Stop Negative Thinking It is a very important point. Just stop telling yourself negative stuffs like: I am fat, I am ugly or I can’t fall in love again etc. Do not complain yourself just keep working hard to modify it. Always try to be the ultimate winner in real ways and be an ideal and inspiration for others and for that you need to be your best friend. Instead of saying negative things yourself do what you love to do, because remember it you deserve it.
Keep Learning You know that nobody is perfect and life always teach us some lesson, so do not disappoint with life because all things happen for good reason, take a lesson or experience from your past and implement it in your present. Always keep learning and allow yourself to change.
- First ask this question to yourself and write down character, talents, thoughts in a list that you feel make up the person you are right now. This question directly hit your doubts, value, beliefs etc.
- Take your time to make above list because it is not a simple task and you cannot end it over a cup of tea or coffee. Try to write everything as much as you can about yourself and separate your list as per good and bad things.
Weakness and Strengths Carefully describe your weakness and strengths, people who know their weakness and strengths for me they are the winner. As per my personal experience I always try to convert my weakness to strengths. But careful about your weakness because if people love you due to your weakness so I think you should not change yourself.
Be Real and Humble Be real in the sense of honesty. Honesty is really a great trait to have; it lets other people know that you can be relied on and that your word is your bond. Honesty isn't about being dull or rude though––it's about telling things frankly with a view to respecting other people's intelligence, feelings. By accepting that you don’t know everything, you become more likable and able to learn from others.
Stop Negative Thinking It is a very important point. Just stop telling yourself negative stuffs like: I am fat, I am ugly or I can’t fall in love again etc. Do not complain yourself just keep working hard to modify it. Always try to be the ultimate winner in real ways and be an ideal and inspiration for others and for that you need to be your best friend. Instead of saying negative things yourself do what you love to do, because remember it you deserve it.
Keep Learning You know that nobody is perfect and life always teach us some lesson, so do not disappoint with life because all things happen for good reason, take a lesson or experience from your past and implement it in your present. Always keep learning and allow yourself to change.
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